Short attention span theatre

19 June, 2008

in personal

baseball player in the outfield
I’ve been everywhere and nowhere the last few weeks. My attention has been diverted elsewhere; namely with Plurk and FriendFeed. I’m a bit over Twitter, but rooting for it to get up off the ropes and deliver a knock-out punch to the upstarts.

I spent a little time in Seattle with friends old and new. Each time I see these people I come home a little sadder than the time before. There was once a time when I used to make excuses for my largely online social life, but I’ve come to understand that reality is relative: if these people feel real to me, if they return the love I give out, if they spend the time either virtually or in person, then they’re every bit as real as people I’ve known for most of my life. Friends are friends – they don’t need modifiers.
And yes, I’m determined to become more involved with the Vancouver bloggers scene. Next Tuesday I’m going to a Vancouver Bloggers meetup that Raul is organizing. He’s one of the first Vancouver bloggers I reached out to who actually reached back. He’s a great writer, a recent Ph.D. graduate, and seems to take an interest in other people, something I’ve found lacking in the seven-plus years I’ve been here. Of course, it could be my introvert talking, and we all know she’s an unreliable narrator.
Update: it seems Raul has accepted a challenge to eat at The Brave Bull, a legendary (and I use that word loosely) restaurant on Vancouver’s East Side. Seeing as how he’s eating there on Monday, I’ll have to watch his blog to see if he lives long enough to make it to the Vancouver Bloggers meetup on Tuesday.
These photos prove without a doubt that I work for the coolest library system on the planet. As part of our “One Book, One Vancouver” city-wide book club, the library staged a boxing demonstration on Library Square this afternoon. Author Karen X. Tulchinsky was also in attendance, and not only did she read from her novel, she threw a few practice punches as well.


  • My definition of "friend" has expanded significantly in the last couple of years. I'm so happy it has that I can't for the life of me remember why exactly I held on so hard to more limiting definitions. I still have a hard time explaining "friends" to my BFF who is not online in these ways and has no idea who I'm talking about. It's a little weird to her still.
    When I'm explaining online life to non-online folks, I often use the example of the day your couch was delivered as a happy moment of being aware of the daily minutiae of strangers' (but not quite) lives. This whole thing seems v. generous to me in ways I can't quite articulate.
    Anyhoo, you all look awesome in the pic above! I'm so glad you had a great time, and I hope these memories buoy you in more deflated times. xo
  • Hi Cecily!
    Aww thanks so much for your kind words. I actually do have an interest in people! I love people, I love hanging out and I think that once you reach out to them, they reach back (well, not everyone, but I've found some really nice blogging that I am more than happy to introduce you to)...
    See you on Tuesday!
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